A piece of truth

Listen. Get the whole story. Understand. Talk. If things need to be said. Say it. If it's better to be told personally, find way and tell it personally. We never know others feelings. Human is created differently. Different ways. Different stories. Different taste. Different thoughts. Allah is watching, is listening. Sometimes our niah is right, but not the way. If we have the intention of doing goods, then find ways to make it stay as good as it should be. Relationship with human is very important. Some things don't matter to you. Might be matters to others. If we cannot make things better, then just pray for others. If we don't have something nice to say, then keep quiet. We are not always right and not everything need to be told. Not everything we need to know. Especially about other people. Let ourselves honestly ask forgiveness and easily forgive. Allah is most forgiving.

Girls chat is simply the best

It's a very good feeling I'm having these days. Probably this is the reason why I really want a younger sister who's not having such a big distance of age between us. But dear Mieza Sharafiena, I still love you the most! haha :p Having the chance to talk about girls' thingy is really a cannot-be-wasted thing. I've been meaning to give advises to a younger sister for quite a long time. Now I have someone to venture that! It's awesome. Sorry Sina for being with me and listens to all of my lectures. And prayers for your relationship! May everything still the same till the end. :)

Let your best be your friend

Stand up for something, even if it's may means standing alone. For those who believe, no proof is necessary. For those who don't believe, no proof is possible. Words only hurt when you allow yourself to believe them. If Allah brings you to it, He will brings you through it. Don't be a dreamer. Dreamers dream. Be a believer. Believers tackle their goals. That's what you should do. Always remember, you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think and more beautiful than you could ever believe. To accomplish great things, you must not only act but also dream, not only plan but also believe. Let your past make you better not bitter. If it weren't for the mistakes you have done, you wouldn't learn a single thing which appear to be meaningful to you a bit later. As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. When you learn how to accept instead of expect, you will have fewer disappointments. Still, don't ever look back. It's bad for you to bear with.

Success is a staircase, not a doorway

Sometimes to be successful, it is not because of formulas or methods but it's all about self realization. Nothing happens for no reasons. Failures, success, good memories, bad memories, everything has been set up for you since you was born and it cannot simply changed just because you want it to be changed. All it takes is one fine time for you to be successful. Do not mind falling because that's the most wonderful thing should happen to you before you want such a great bouncing.

Successful people are those who are trained to be successful, they are not born to be because to be successful, you must have the eagerness. Apart from that, everything can be trained. Know you own problems, self realization yourself according to your own problems and capabilities. Knowledge is dead. You don't have to be experts in order to be successful. Just be knowledgeable. Plant a good habit for yourself and for your own good. Learn how to be a multitasker. You can never work forever but you can never stop to work forever too. It's a win win situation here. Just depends on which one you choose to do.

To be skillful, you need to practice to create your own piece of artwork. Give yourself a million reasons why everything can be done. There is no harm in trying. Walk what you talk, experience is the very best teacher in life. You can make more so don't make less, don't hesitate because what's hindering you is your own self. When you think you know, that's where you don't know, when you think you understand, that's where you don't understand. Life is huge. When you do good deeds, everybody will give you back good deeds. Be a builder, not a professor. Observe and say things that make sense.

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalammualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

In the name of Allah, the most merciful and the most forgiving. I must admit it has been a long time since I write in this blog of mine. It has been a long time since I've started to split out everything happen inside here, good or bad, beneficial or not. It's a good feeling to be able to write again and insyaAllah I will do it at least if it's not as often as before, well I will surely spend some time here to make my own self feel better.

I know I am not that perfect and I do not live to be. But before you start pointing fingers, please make sure your hands are clean. Everyone deserves a second chance. But yes of course not for the same mistakes, over and over again. I believe the best way to escape from your past is not avoiding it or forget it. But to accept it and forgive it. For every dark night, there's a brighter day. Pain doesn't just show up in our lives for no solid reason. It's a small sign that somehow something in our lives needs to be changed right away.

Mieza Shafieza, life is a collection of mistakes. You will never learn if you don't make them. For the past few months, it has been such a tough months for you. Good times become good memories and bad times become good lessons. Let go everything and welcome March sincerely. InsyaAllah, March will be yours. Amin! :)